The Importance of Trust in a Marriage

Marriage and Trust 

 

 What is trust? Trust develops when someone strongly believes in something or someone no matter what anyone says. It is one of the key ingredients that protects and holds a marriage together, without it marriages are bound to face problems. A marriage lacking trust is good as a failed one. Remember if you don't trust someone how can you possibly display affection towards them. A relationship without trust would suffer from hurt, anger, disloyalty, cheating, abuse and many more. Trust is knowing that your future is in safe hands with the one that you have chosen to commit to. Its knowing that you are loved and that person would not dare do anything to hurt you.

Why do People Lose Trust?

 

Trust is lost when someone betrays another person. It becomes difficult to trust a person when they have disappointed you, especially when you expected better from them. Not only can one lose trust when someone lies, but trust can also be broken through disloyalty, deceit, destructive habits, selfishness and addiction. Once this trust is broken, it becomes very difficult to rebuild it. 

Don't betray the one you Love

 

Now many relationships suffer from trust issues and it is understandable judging from the things that are taking place in today's society. If your love one breaks your trust, it doesn't mean they don't love you, so don't run at the first chance you get. People often make mistakes when they can not differentiate from right and wrong, good or bad. So this is your opportunity to guide them and show them the right part. Do not try to get even or betray their trust, because then you will be no better than them. But folks try not to betray the trust of the one you love, it is the most unbearable and heart wrenching feeling to see the one you love walk out your life. Just remember it takes a lifetime to develop trust but seconds to shatter it.