Sunday 9 November 2014

Is your Marriage Sex Deprived?



SEX & MARRIAGE
  
We are all adults here, and we all know what sex is. Sex is the act of engaging in physical intercourse with the opposite sex, and in some cases the same sex. But how important is sex in a marriage? Can a sex deprived marriage be the cause for a marriage to fail? Well I believe a marriage lacking that intimate connection can ultimately fail. Not only would couples drift apart from each other but a marriage lacking sex can lead to conflict and extramarital affairs. It is obvious if a marriage is lacking sex, your partner can result to searching for that connection on the outside, no one wants this but it does happen.

WHY DO MARRIAGES LACK SEX?

Are you encountering problems in your marriage because of sex? Are you dissatisfied with your sex life with your spouse? Well you're not alone, there are many reasons why married couples encounter these problems. Following below are a few reasons why marriages lack sex.

1) Conflict and Abuse- Continuous conflict, abuse and misunderstandings amongst married couples can lead to dissatisfaction in their sex life.

2) Lack of Trust- Marriages lacking trust will ultimately suffer both on an emotional and physical level. Any spouse who mistrusts their other half will not desire to be with him or her intimately as they would fear that they may be cheating.

3)Too much Commitments- How can this affect your sex life? Well when you have too much responsibilities, you often get engrossed and tired trying to accomplish these, from going to work and running behind the kids. You often find yourself "too tired" for anything else and avoid being with your spouse in an intimate sense.



4) Unattractive Spouse- now this may sound shallow and beauty is about whats on the inside and not the outside. But face it, if you have yourself looking unattractive, over weight and unappealing, your spouse may not find you desirable.


THE IMPORTANCE OF SEX IN A MARRIAGE

Is sex important in a marriage? The answer is yes and I am positive you all would agree. It is one of the most vital aspect in a marriage and is the only thing you share with your husband and wife alone, unless you sharing it with someone else other than your spouse which is a big no no. Couples lacking sex in their married lives can be considered none other than roommates. Sex is important as it adds to your relationship a profound connection between each other filled with desire and passion. It brings couples closer and strengthens their relationship both on an emotional and physical level. 


TIPS FOR MARRIED COUPLES

Are you experiencing problems in your sex life? Well here a a few tips that can help improve your intimate life with your spouse.

1) Spice it Up- You can try something different, don't do the same old boring thing all the time. Perhaps you can try role play or go to a nice romantic resort for the weekend. Do something that can add zest to your relationship.

2) Accessorize- This one is for the ladies, you can tantalize your husband by accessorizing with lingerie and jewelry.

3) Keep fit- this is for both husband and wife. Exercising is not only beneficial for your health but it helps keep your body in shape. This is vital as it helps you look attractive and gain the body your spouse can't have enough of.

4) Don't be Lazy- if your spouse wants sex, give it to them cause you wouldn't want them looking for it on the outside.

5) Share your thoughts- if there is something you like or dislike share it with your spouse. Effective communication inside and outside the bedroom is vital for a healthy marriage.

6) Be romantic- Always try to be romantic and loving towards your spouse, this helps increase that intimate connection you share with each other.

Hope you enjoyed reading this post. If i missed anything please feel free to share in the comment box below.


1 comment:

  1. Lack of trust is definitely a cause for lack of intamacy in any relationship. With all these doubts floating around in your head (is he/she cheating? will I catch an STD?) sex would be th furtherest thing on your mind.

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