Loving Your Partner

In an earlier post, i spoke about what is love. Love is what brings two people together and its is vital for the success of a marriage or relationship. Loving your partner is not just about saying " i love you:", it's about doing the things to make that person feel loved. Saying "i love you' means nothing if you can't show it. There are many things that one can do to say "i love you" without really having to say i love you, if you know what i mean.

 Ten Ways to Show Your Love

Expressing your love does not require spending a lot of money or doing something fancy all the time. The simple things you do for someone is sufficient enough to show them your love for them. Following below are ten ways you can show your love towards your spouse or partner.


1) Spending Quality Time Together: Set aside time to spend with the one you love. 

2) Be Affectionate- all marriages and relationships need that emotional safety and acceptance. Kisses and hugs from your spouse or your partner is the sweetest thing out.

3) Flowers- Once in a while you can send flowers to your partner's workplace. Now i know some of you may be thinking this comment is directed to the guys. But who says a woman can't send flowers for a guy.

4) Date Nights- i know most married couples barely have date nights, but date nights are fun. Set aside at least a few days in the month where you both can go out and have some fun.

5) Share Your Feelings- sharing your feelings and your thoughts with your partner reassures them they are needed by you.

6) Breakfast in Bed- Surprise your loved one with breakfast in bed.

7) Chores- Offer to do their share of the chores ever so often, especially the ones they hate doing.

8) Candle Light Dinner- surprise your other half with a candle light dinner prepared with their favorite dishes.

9)  Remind them that you love them- yes it is important to show them you love them, but its nice to hear it ever so often.

10) Introduce them- Introduce your partner to the people in your life like your coworkers, family and friends. Show them you are proud to have them stand by your side and ensure they feel welcomed.