Finally it’s that time of your life where you’re the one
walking down the aisle. That day have finally arrived, its your day and you just want everything to be
perfect and for nothing to go wrong. Just remember when planning your wedding take
into consideration you would only celebrate this day once, unless you plan on renewing
your vows. I’m not married, but I could just imagine when that day arrives for
me, I would want that day to be absolutely perfect. But it’s insane to think
that nothing will go wrong. Here are some last minute tips that can help make
your day stress free and meaningful.
1) Don't Stress out- Its your wedding and i can just imagine you want everything to be perfect but reality check we live in a world where people "mess up". So try not take on any additional stress, just let the little things slide.
2) Take Some Alone Time- its the one day in your life where all eyes would be focused on you. Its moments before the ceremony, your heart is racing and you feel as if you're sweating. Its the day that is going to change your life forever. What i suggest you do, is to take a few minutes for yourself breath and collect your thoughts.
3) Don't Turn into Bridezilla- this one is for the ladies, i know how you can get, when something doesn't go as planned. But remain calm and do not throw a tantrum, nobody wants to deal with a crazy and bitchy bride. You cannot control if something doesn't go as planned, just accept it and work around it. Moreover this day is just not about you alone, its also about your husband. Click the link below how this bride to be turns into a bridezilla and ruins her day. After watching this video, i feel sorry for her bridal party and family.
4) Assign Responsibilities- Although you have hired a wedding planner, be sure to assign responsibilities to your close family and friends who can ensure things run smoothly just in case the wedding planner slips up.
5) Script It-Most couples nowadays have stepped away from the traditional vows and prefer writing their own vows. If you're one of those, then here is a little piece of advice. Write down your wedding vows on a piece of paper, and don't try to play hero and remember it. You may feel as though you would look foolish standing in front of the altar reading from a piece of paper, but trust me what would look more foolish and embarrassing is if you cant remember what you wanted to say Moreover for those on your bridal party who have an important part to play ask them to write down their speech as well.
6) Don't Get Drunk- Its your big day and you want to enjoy your day to the fullest. You want to be the life of the party and celebrate your love with great pomp. But getting drunk is not the solution. By getting drunk not only would you embarrass your self but you may miss some important things on your big day. Your pictures may get ruined and you may say something embarrassing to your guest. And most importantly you would not get to enjoy your wedding night with your spouse because you would be to drunk. So ladies and gents just to be on the safe side don't over consume alcohol on this special day.
7) Make sometime for your spouse- Yes this day is about celebrating your love for each other, you go through so much formalities and rituals that you barely get chance to spend some quality time with your better half. Be sure to make some time for your husband or wife and spend some quality time with them and enjoy the day together.
Hope the these little pointers would be of help for those who are getting married and for those who plan on getting married.
good tips in preparing for the big day
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ReplyDeleteSome useful tips to note for those walking down the aisle soon.
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